Mentorship transforms Fort Myers judge and local teen's lives

FORT MYERS, Fla.—Judge Trent Reichling of Fort Myers is known for making impactful decisions in the courtroom, but his most significant work might be happening outside of it.  

WINK News anchor Amanda Hall sat down with him to discuss his decision to become a mentor. 

Reichling's voice changes when he talks about Lucas Goldstein, a teenager he has mentored for nearly six years through the Big Brothers Big Sisters program. 

"I think from the moment that we met, it was pretty obvious that we would be bonded," said Reichling. "I mean, we hit it off, like the first day." 

Goldstein, now 16, recalls the simplicity of their early meetings. 

"We get breakfast a lot, like a gentlemen's breakfast," said Goldstein. 

Reichling shared how these breakfasts reminded him of his own father. 

"It reminded me of my dad sitting at a diner and reading the paper and drinking coffee and eating breakfast. And so, I made it like a joke to Lucas about that. He brought his book," said Reichling. 

Initially nervous, Goldstein now feels a strong bond with Reichling. 

"At first I was nervous, but that's long gone now," said Goldstein. 

Reichling expressed how their relationship has grown over time. 

"I think the bond has only strengthened as he's gotten older, and I've gotten older," said Reichling. 

Goldstein appreciates the influence Reichling has had on his life. 

"More than I can say in words," said Goldstein. "A lot. A lot of influence on me." 

He emphasized the uniqueness of their relationship. 

"There's really no other person that I have that's like that," said Goldstein. "I could say almost anything and he'd be fine." 

Reichling's support was especially significant after a personal tragedy in Goldstein's life. 

 "After my brother passed away almost two years ago, the first person to come through. And he was there for like, every week after that," said Goldstein. 

When asked what he would say to Reichling, Goldstein expressed his gratitude. 

"You've had a really big impact on my life for five, almost six years now, and I can't even tell you how thankful I am. He's a big part of my life," said Goldstein. 

Goldstein is now thriving and considering law school, inspired by Reichling's mentorship. 

"He's really, truly, I've never, I have a little sister, but never had a little brother, you know? And to me, he's blood," said Reichling. 

The bond between Reichling and Goldstein is a testament to the impact of mentorship, aligning with the mission of Big Brothers Big Sisters, which began more than a century ago to provide guidance to young boys in the justice system. 

For those interested in becoming a mentor, click here for more information.